Author - Sarah G

After receiving a ton of newbie questions on how to get started, I’ve decided to put a simple list together of what’s needed to kick things off as a cam girl. This will not be a super exhaustive list. It’s the basics to help quickly feed information to girls looking to start camming. I’m also doing this because I am getting so many basic questions from people.

The Very First Things To Do When Becoming A Cam Girl

Read this list and follow the links referenced. I’ve laid out everything that models need to know if they want to get started. Literally – EVERYTHING. Well, I won’t cover the deep in the trenches stuff today like squirting on cam or crazy stuff like that. But this is the basic cam girl stuff. If you have any questions after reading my other articles, please do continue to reach out.

Create Your Camgirl Name

This is the first step to success. You need to create your name. Don’t use your real name because that’s going to lead to trouble.

Instead, create a catchy, brandable, easy to remember name. If you’re into a specific niche, then I suggest using something related to that niche. If not, then go broad and brandable, but keep it catchy.

Setup Social Accounts

Okay, do NOT sleep on this one. Make sure that social media handles are available and secure them as soon as you can.

I’ve heard so many stories of models creating a name and brand, then not being able to secure the social and sure enough, someone launch jacked their brand.

Don’t let this happen or you’ll be sorry. Setup the basics, which are Instagram, Twitter, Facebook etc.

Sign Up For A Platform & Read The Rules

Get signed up on a camming platform. There are tons of them out there to consider joining. My advice would be to do your research, but if you’re looking to just get started, then join Camsoda.com.

This is the up and coming platform that everyone is using. It’s pretty much a guarantee that you will make money at Camsoda because it’s so new and popular.

Now, don’t just sign up. Make sure you understand the rules and regulations here. If not, you could lose out on all your earnings.

The adult industry is getting more strict and they need to protect their platform, billing and brand in general. They are not going to sacrifice their entire operations over one model that wants to earn a few extra dollars. So, please know the rules.

Understand The Tech Requirements

You’re going to need a computer and a webcam at a minimum. Understand the most basic tech requirements as a model. It’s not necessary to spend thousands of dollars to get started.

The startup costs of modeling are low. Just kick things off with the bare minimum, but understand all that’s needed.

Block Local People

Many girls may choose to skip this but I’ve done this and really suggest you do as well. Blocking local people aka geo blocking your local IP area will prevent people in your hometown from being able to find you.

This is important as you really might not want locals creeping on you. On the other hand, some models (not me) connect intimately with locals and make a ton of money from them. The choice is yours really, but I choose privacy.

Setup Your Profile

Next up, set your profile up with a solid description, bio, physical attributes and more. Leaving a half-ass profile on a cam site or even worse, a blank one, will lead to no money.

Do you want to make money? Great, then put in the basic work of providing consumers information and you’ll succeed.

Learn How To Start Conversations

You need to know how to start conversations with consumers. Work on ice breakers, convo ideas and things of that nature.

Cover non-political trends, events and holidays happening in society today. Talk about things that you like and even better, things that you love.

Research Show Ideas

You should do your research. Find out what types of shows other models are doing and think about how you can incorporate the same into your work.

Do your research. I’ve covered a lot of show intel over the years on HowAreYouBB.com. Please look around for ideas for shows.

Start A Blog – Time Permitted

Last but not least, if you can start a blog, then you should. Consumers love reading posts done by models. They love reading about their days and just life in general.

This helps give them insight into what you’re doing and why and trust me, it typically leads to them buying more private shows. This is the very last thing that you should be doing to kick start things. Do everything else first.

Conclusion: Just Do Them

So, those are the most important things you need to do if you want to start out as a cam girl. Do them in the order that I’v presented and put in the effort up front.

This will help you succeed in the long run and if you cannot do this, then you should rethink becoming a cam model. It’s just scratching the surface, but trust me, the money will flow if you do things right.

Feel free to reach out to me with any other questions or concerns that you might have!

XOXO + High-Five ~ Sarah

This article covers the sugar babies and sugar daddies relationship and whether or not you are doomed if you do not sleep with your “daddy.” Guess what, not all sugar daddies demand sex. You’ll find out why below. Here’s what you need to know if you’re looking to profit from a sweet sugary relationship – WITHOUT the sex.

Can You Be A Sugar Baby Without Giving Them Sex? YES!

If you’re thinking about entering into a sugar daddy and sugar baby relationship then you probably think that having sex with your daddy is a necessity. That’s the way that most of these relationships work, after all.

An older, well to do man seeks out a much younger and attractive girl and pays her a monthly allowance for her time and plenty of sex. It doesn’t have to be that way, though. Just because it’s the way that most of these relationships work out doesn’t mean that it’s the way that yours has to work.

Some Daddies Want Something Different

The simple fact of the matter is that there are some sugar daddies out there who want something very different from their sugar babies. Some of these men really just want someone to spend time with them. Others just want an attractive young girl to take out on the town.

Still, others have a fetish that they need to be fulfilled. Sometimes that fetish is as simple as having someone rely on them and ask them for money. Other times, the fetish is financial domination. No matter what the reason for it, there are plenty of sugar daddy relationships out there that don’t require sex.

Having Sex Is Up To You

Of course, none of this is to say that you should always work to avoid having sex with a sugar daddy. It can be an extremely fulfilling experience for both of you.

After taking so much of a man’s money, it’s only natural to want to thank him with your body. As long as it’s up to you, the sex can be a lot of fun and something that you end up craving and looking forward to. Just be open to anything that comes your way.

Sometimes It Doesn’t Work

There are going to be some times when the relationship just doesn’t work. There are always going to be men who think that the sugar relationship is all about paying for sex. Then there are girls who feel that they’re entitled to someone else’s money and want to do nothing at all in return for getting it.

Neither of these two things “sugar” relationships. If there’s a daddy who wants you to do things that makes you uncomfortable, all you have to do is walk away. There’s always someone else for you to meet out there. Oh, and trust me, you will run into the average fuck boy from time to time. It’s inevitable, so just roll with the punches.

Negotiate The Relationship First

The very best thing that you can do for yourself is to simply work out the details of the relationship before it starts, including money. Just lay it all out on the table and let him know what you’re willing to do and what you expect in return.

He’ll likely come back with his own expectations and offers for you. Just find a middle ground and make that the basis of your relationship. You just can’t get any better than knowing what to expect before your relationship ever starts and it will save you from a whole lot of frustration down the line.

Conclusion: Do It and Have Fun With It

No matter what your relationship ends up being, just make sure that you have fun with it. It’s an experience that not everyone gets to have. On top of that, you’re only going to be young for so long.

Once you pass a certain threshold, you’ll have to offer increasingly specialized sexual services after you choose this as your lifestyle, until you’re only good as a granny offering your services to men who are the age that you use to be when you started this whole thing.

Working as a live cam model means that you always have to find something to make your shows as fun and appealing as possible. You have to keep the people coming in and make sure you’re giving them a real reason to stick around for your shows. The best way for you to do that is to simply make sure you have the fun kinds of sex toys that you can use to give them something that they want to watch. Here are the most popular sex toys for cam models all over the world. I should mention, these are great to use in both premium private shows as well as live free cam shows.

These Sex Toys Are Just Perfect For Cam Girls

All of these toys are those that I’ve either used or have heard first hand from other models on what they do and how they work. Look, you need sex toys handy if you’re a cam girl and these are the toys you should consider using today.

Lovense Vibrators

The top of any sex toy for cam models list is always going to be taken by Lovense vibrators. These are toys that can be turned on and off by tips or apps.

The viewers get to control the intensity of the vibrations and the models get to enjoy all of the tips that it takes to set them off. They come in all shapes and sizes so you can have a toy for every situation.

There are clitoral vibrators, G-spot vibrators, and even vibrating butt plugs. If you have a need then Lovense can fill it.

We-Vibe

Next up is the We-Vibe. This is also a remote control vibrator, but it won’t work with tips. It’s best used in private shows on Skype. It’s controlled through an app, so you’ll have to give your viewer access to it.

Once they have it, they can control the vibrations and their intensities. The best-selling toy they have to offer is the Chorus.

It’s a U shaped vibrator that’s meant to hook onto the model’s pubic bone to stimulate both her clitoris and G-spot at the same time. If you really want to enjoy your show as much as your viewers then this is the toy you need.

The Cowgirl

If you’ve heard of the Sybian then you know exactly what this toy is all about. It’s a saddle that the model can straddle while it vibrates them to an unstoppable orgasm.

What sets this thing apart is that you can control it with an app. That means your viewers will be able to set it off whenever they want and you’ll just be along for the ride.

There’s plenty of add ons for the saddle, including vaginal and anal vibrators to enjoy with it. Trust me, this toy is amazing.

Hismith

Once again, this is a toy that’s best used in private shows and on Skype. It’s a fully functional fuck machine that won’t break the bank.

It can be controlled by an app that puts total control into the viewer’s hands. It can be set up to 240 strokes per minute and adjusted for anything from 2” to 6” of vaginal penetration.

If you really want to be taken for a bang on your shows then this is the very best way for you to do it. It’s safe and it’s as pleasurable as it can possibly be.

Liberator Pillows

Moving away from high tech to low tech is the Liberator Pillow. This is a simple thing that can make all the difference in your cam shows.

They’re all designed to get you into the best positions for any kind of cam action. They make it comfortable and they can be outfitted with sex toys.

These pillows will take any sized vibrator or wand so you can ride them without getting yourself into a position that makes it painful or difficult to achieve orgasm. No matter what else you use, make sure you get yourself one of these pillows for your shows.

Domi

The Domi is a mini wand that acts as a competitor to the Hitachi magic wand. It’s compact and much more useful than the usual wand. That’s because it’s interactive and can be set off with tips.

You can also use it in your private and Skype shows when you want to give out access to the app. It’s a powerful wand that never lets up and is perfect for full vulva stimulation.

It’s an experience that you just can’t get with any other kind of toy on the market and any model who uses it is going to love it.

Womanizer

Finally, we come to the Womanizer. This is a toy that directly stimulates the clitoris and nothing else. It uses a sucking sensation that most women find irresistible.

It’s not interactive, but people will line up to watch any cam girl use it. The reason for that is that a powerful orgasm is pretty much guaranteed any time that it comes out.

On top of that, it’s the go-to toy for any girl who wants to experience the soaking ecstasy of a squirting orgasm. Being able to do that on cam will keep the viewers coming day after day.

Try Them All

These are the most popular sex toys for cam girls on the market. Try one or try them all. No matter which toys you get, your viewers will love them. These are the top of the line and there’s a very good reason for that. They simply work and they’re fun.

No one can resist them once they come out. You’ll see the difference in the number of people in your room right away and you’ll never want to go back to your old ways of doing shows ever again. Get your collections started today! Lastly, I should mention that many of these can be found on Amazon, so be sure to add them to your wish lists!