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Adult Conventions: The 5 Best Types To Attend

Cam girls need fans to make money. Finding and meeting fans at conventions is pretty easy actually and a great way to grow your personal brand. Not to mention the rippling effect it has on industry connections. This is a quick list of the different types of conventions that you should be attending as a cam model today.

Adult Conventions

My Most Recommended Types of Conventions For Models To Attend

There are many different types of adult conventions happening all around the world. Some of these conventions are live while others are held online. Most have awards ceremonies but others are simply community gatherings. These are some of the best adult conventions that anyone can check out.

Porn Conventions

Porn conventions are held for both the people who make porn and the people who watch it. It’s a great place to see all of the biggest porn stars in real life. There are awards for the best creators at most of them, but not all. The most popular one is Adult Con.

This is held three times a year in Los Angeles and Las Vegas and features both exotic dancers and performers. A one-day ticket costs $40 and comes with a $5 casino chip. The AVN Expo is a four-day convention where men and women can meet their favorite porn stars and get their autographs.

The Exxxotica is held in Chicago and women are able to get in for free on Fridays. Finally, the XBiz Convention brings industry leaders to one place for marketing and technology talks. There’s also a lingerie party and other fun things to do.

Webcam Conventions

Webcam conventions usually happen as a mix of in-person conventions and virtual visitors. One of the biggest is BCams. It’s held in Romania and invites cam models, webcam sites, and anyone who loves cams. It also has two awards ceremonies.

The first gives awards to cam models while the second gives them to studios. The Lal Expo is sponsored by LiveJasmin and other cam sites. There are over 600 models from all over the world and it mixes fun events as well as industry talks. It can be attended in person as well as virtually.

Fetish Conventions

There are also a few different conventions that focus on fetish and kink. Fetish Con is the biggest one in the world. It encompasses all fetishes and focuses on offering information about healthy fetish lifestyles. West Coast Bound is held in Vancouver.

They have presenters, education, and a dungeon party. It’s also possible to buy t-shirts and hoodies. Finally, there’s Bound Con. This is the biggest adult convention in Europe. They have over 100 different exhibitors from all around the world. There are also custom photo shoots from different studios for people to take advantage of.

Hentai Conventions

There is one large Hentai convention. It happens every spring and takes place in Atlanta, Georgia. It takes kink and cosplay and brings them both together with lots and lots of people from everywhere you can imagine.

They have lots of parties and they never have a problem with the convention goers getting totally naked at the event. It’s also one of the best places to see homemade costumes that don’t leave much to the imagination. There are several different ticket options available. Each one if going to have a different duration and the prices range from $20 all the way to $130.

Trade Shows

Finally, there are trade shows that focus on the business side of adult entertainment. One of the biggest is the ANME Founders Show. This happens in Los Angeles every January and brings in American and Canadian sex toy manufacturers to present their products.

The ETO Show is the biggest trade show in the United Kingdom. It takes place in Coventry, and they have an award show as well as presenters. The Altitude Show takes place in Las Vegas and comes around semi-annually. Manufacturers are able to show off their lingerie, sex toys, and other adult products.

Conclusion: Attend At Least One Show A Year As A Model!

If you’re serious about building your brand as a cam girl then you need to attend conventions and shows at least once a year. It will help, I promise, and can guarantee that! One other thing that you might want to consider doing (and don’t tell anyone about this trick) but you might want to join a few hookup sites too. I’ll explain the ones in the next few updates I publish.

xMarketplace Review

As a webcam model you know I look for money-making opportunities daily. Well, this post covers everything about xMarketplace.com – a potential money-making method for you. xMarketplace is a website script that lets you sell adult toys to people all over the world.

It comes with lots of different features that make it easy to create an eCommerce destination. There are over 70,000 products already listed in the script for you to start selling right away. It also makes it easy to create multiple income streams on one site.

xMarketplace Review

xMarketplace Review – Site Details

xMarketplace is available for anyone to download and start selling adult sex toys. There are three different options for getting the script for yourself. The very first is a free demo that you can install right on your PC. This will let you check it all out and see how easy it really happens to be to use.

When you decide that it’s for you, the first retail option will cost you $199. This is the script itself and it comes with lots of features. There are over 15,000 preloaded products, a lifetime license, free installation software, six months of support, one free domain, 75% off of hosting, and more.

The next option is more expensive at $299. This one comes with all of the same features, plus a 45-minute, one on one coaching program to help you sell.

Responsive Design

What really makes this script great is the fact that it’s fully responsive across multiple platforms. That means that users will have the same smooth experience, whether they’re on their desktops or their mobile devices.

It makes it very easy for customers to use the site no matter where they are or what they’re doing. On top of that, it’s also optimized. That will send traffic right to your destination whenever people are searching for toys. This is a site that will basically run itself as soon as you get it all set up.

Discounts For Visitors

The best way to convince someone to buy something from you is to offer them a discount. That’s why this script comes loaded with predesigned offers for the traffic on your site. You’ll also be able to create your own.

It will be easy to simply set a percentage off of any product that you want to push to your customers. Visitors will be able to see it right away and decide that they want to save some money. On top of that, you’ll be able to set expiration dates on all of the discounts.

Dropship To Any Country

Limiting yourself to domestic shipping is never a good way to run a business. That’s why you’re also going to be able to drop ship anywhere in the world. All it takes is the customer entering their address and the site will take care of the rest.

You’ll be able to register as an affiliate partner with top networks while you sell your products to the world. It’s pretty much a given that you’ll be able to start making real money as soon as you get yourself set up and operating the marketplace site.

Conclusion: Give xMarketplace A Shot As A Cam Model & Toy Advocate Today!

xMarketplace is a great script that allows you to sell preloaded products to people all over the world. It’s easy to use and you can get it up and running within a few minutes. They have a free demo for you to check out and you’ll get tons of features when you decide to buy it.

On top of all that, you can even load in your own products to sell. You can create multiple income streams with one script and it will never stop working for you. Check it out and you’ll see that it’s the best way to turn traffic into income.

You can convince your fans to buy toys pretty easily. Anything that will bring them pleasure is usually a plus, so give it a shot!

See Also: 7 Most Popular Sex Toys Perfect For Webcam Models

Show Me Your Tits BB

Today’s update covers the infamous guy begging to see tits for free. It’s all about the freeloaders and clears up the fact that nothing in camming is free. Especially if you want to build up your bank account balance. Here is a rundown of questions and replies to them that you can consider. These replies will help deflect those that are asking for free content.

Nothing Is Free On Webcam

Now, I know what you’re thinking, and I’ve heard it a thousand times before. “The best things in life are free.” In real life? Maybe. (although I’m going to come in with a strong #debatable). In Cam life? NOTHING IS FREE.

Let’s just get all of the silly questions out of the way now, so we can delve into the truth of the subject.

“What about smiles?” … While it’s true that smiles may not be paid for with cash, tokens, or gold (Although it might work if you DO charge for it) they are most certainly paid for with your soul that will inevitably be sucked out piece by excruciating piece from dealing with the gigantic F*$% Boys that you have to deal with on a daily basis. (“Ass BB… Show tits BB. Show me a preview and then Private BB)… but I digress.

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“If I tease for free then maybe they will pay for it!” Nope. No. NOOOOO. Don’t fall into this trap, beauties. There is so much out there for you, and money is at the head of the pack. Would you ask a clothing store to give you a free shirt so you could test it out before you buy it?

How about asking a restaurant if you could try a small version of their entrée dish for free? Pretty sure they would laugh in your face and walk away. At least, that’s what I would do.

In fact, it IS what I do anytime some entitled jerk comes into my cam room and tries to get the milk for free. Repeat after me, ladies and gents. “NO, the cow is NOT for sale and the milk is NEVER free.”

Luxury Service

The fact of the matter is that you are providing a luxury service. The keyword to remember there is LUXURY. If you are out of their price range then you are also out of their league. (Awe..can’t afford a show? Better start saving up to give yourself a nice big birthday gift!)

Here’s what you do. Sit down, write out a list of what you know you will get asked for, and then price out what you’re comfortable charging for each individual thing. Don’t second guess yourself!! If you want to charge high, charge high!

This ain’t Walmart, and you don’t need to roll back your prices. The way I see it, it’s better to start your prices higher and lower them if you need, rather than setting the bar low and having to explain to people why your prices are being raised.

Flash? $5

Spanks? $3/spank

Twerk? $15

Blocking them when they continue to try and get it for free? Priceless.

You get the idea. Don’t sell yourself short! If you have people trying to get things for free then you either convert them into a paying customers or you cut the gigantic, pathetic freeloading cord that is their life. (#ByeFelicia)

Have I drilled that into your head enough?

Good.

So here comes the other side of things. Some people that you’re going to encounter like to sip on that haterade that is their miserable existence and call it juice.

These people will be climbin’ in your windows, snatchin’ that free pussy up, so ya’ll better hide your girls, hide your sin-caves and hide your emotions cause they monetarily rapin’ er’body up in here.

Common phrases include, but are not limited to:

“I’m just asking because OTHER models do it for this price.”

“If you showed more for free, then more people would tip in”

“But I’ve given you so much money already!”

“You’re expensive”

(Side note: If you didn’t read that in an obnoxiously whiny voice, take it back one time and try again)

Can Be Dumb & Annoying

If you haven’t already figured it out, these people are idiots.

They aren’t worth your time, and more often than not they are either trying to get you to lose your cool, or they are honestly ignorant enough to believe that you would show them something for free… and for what? Because they think they deserve it?

Girl, please. You control your room and if you give away the goose, you give away the gander. (The goose being YOU and the gander in this case being the control)

Let’s face it…

This is a job that comes with the vulnerability of exposing parts of yourself that most people would never dream of exposing, let alone have the courage to show even their closest of friends.

There is a risk involved, there is the knowledge that everything you do while the cam is turned on has the possibility of being posted on the internet ANYWHERE and being seen by literally ANYONE.

(If you don’t think this is the case, you are severely naive, and I recommend you research some more about what career choice you’re making before deciding on anything.)

Taking all of these things into consideration, I think we can all agree that we have the right, NAY, the duty to charge for any and all of the services and products that we provide.

Including the pleasure of our sparkling personalities. 🙂

Wrapping Things Up

I’ll leave you with this. Ultimately, the decision of whether to give away teases and freebies to potential trolls is up to you. It’s your world and we’re all just living in it.

All I’m preaching here is that you should never let anyone devalue you as not only a product but also as a model.

…and hey, I’m not saying to stand up and say to the world “I have the Pussy, so I make the rules. Pay to play or get the F*&$ out”

…but I’m also not NOT saying that.

Dealing With Catty Cam Models

We all know what high school was like. Regardless of whether you were in the popular crowd, a band geek, a debate team guru or a gothic rebel, we all dealt with the inevitable catty, horrible drama/angst filled “woe is me” girl. Hell, most of us probably were the drama filled girls. (Not that I’m thinking of myself in that situation at all.. I was a perfect angel. Just like Mary Poppins. Practically Perfect in Every Way!)

I don’t know about you, but I hated high school. Absolutely loathed it. I remember thinking on more than one occasion that I couldn’t wait until it was over because adults always seemed to have it together. They had it so easy not having to deal with the petty drama. Little did I know, they were just better at hiding it from us kids because boy, was I in for a surprise when the drama never really went away.

Granted, we aren’t in a high school classroom forced to see whoever the bane of our existence was day after day. But it seems as though by the time we enter the real world, the drama is so ingrained within some of us that it’s impossible to let it go. Thus creates….. (dun dun dun) The Catty Camgirl.

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Catty Cam Girl Facts

When I first started camming I had no idea that it was as much of a community as it actually is. I remember always thinking about how these girls all seemed to know each other and I was on the outside looking in. Once I started getting more ingrained in the everyday hustle and bustle of camming I saw it in a whole new light.

There will be cliques. OH, will there ever be cliques! The top girls of cam sites can be very competitive, and as a result, there can be some nasty things that get said. It’s up to you whether or not you engage or decide to ignore it.

Ignore The Haters

Personally, I like to ignore all the haters. Instead, I use it to measure my success. In my mind, the more haters that I have the more successful than I.

I don’t have time to engage in petty arguments or respond to the trolls on social media. I just ignore them, brush my shoulder off, give them the good ol’ two-finger salute and carry on my merry way of being a master of the universe. But even though I decide to ignore it, doesn’t mean that it doesn’t exist.

Success Breeds Bashers

Look, the fact of the matter is this. If you are doing well on your cam site, and by that I mean you’re killing it with the hours, you’re slaying it with the regulars, you’re going HAM on some goals… then you’re inevitably going to collect a group of camgirls that would rather spend their time bashing you then working on their own craft.

This doesn’t reflect on you as much as it reflects on how shitty they are. You will have models come into your rooms and troll you, if you’re on a private-based site, they may try to take you to exclusive for 5 seconds. (This, by the way, is so they don’t get charged and your room gets cleared out.)

Some of the more *cough* vocal *cough* ones will take their ridiculous, obnoxious rants to Twitter because you know… somehow bashing another model in front of your fans will create a solid, loyal fanbase. (Gag me, please.) Not in a kinky way either.

Here To Stay

I hate to say it, but the truth of the matter is that there is never going to be a way to get rid of these types of girls. They exist in the world. They are the mediocre cam-girl that allow us to shine. So what do you do? Do you let them disrespect you and completely f*$% with your workflow? (How about NO, Scott.) There are some things that you can do to alleviate the annoying.

Make Them Ask

If you’re on a private-based site and models are trolling and clearing out your room by taking your private, start having the guys ASK you before. If someone tries to take me without asking first, it throws up a major red flag.

If they haven’t even said Hi to me why would they want to spend $10/min on an exclusive session? What if I don’t do what they offer? What if they think my voice is annoying?

If they can’t ask, then I assume they are a model trying to clear out my room and mess with my vibe….and you better believe, I will decline every single show if they aren’t respectful of my rules in that matter.

Send A Message – Literally

If the harassment gets too extreme, you can always send in a message to the cam site that you’re on. I wish I could say that this had a 100% success rate, but the sad truth of the matter is that it doesn’t. Sometimes the haters are favorites and they get away with murder.

So, to each their own with what you want to do at that point, but my advice is to be the bigger person and just do you, boo-boo. Trust and believe that nothing is going to get to the catty camgirl as much as you are not engaging. If you don’t react, then it’s not going to give them the satisfaction that they are looking for.

Conclusion: The Catty Will Be Catty

Hell, while they will be busy spending so much time trying to get a rise out of you, stalking your cam room, and giving you free promo by mentioning you on social media, you can be out there like Ri-Ri.

(Let me see you werk, werk, werk, werk, werk.) The best comeback is a success. And after all, they say that haters are your biggest fans. So #KeepOnHatin’

Thinking Different About The Webcam Business

Sometimes all it takes is thinking differently about a business. That’s why today I’m covering what you need to know if you’re in the cam industry today. Looking at the business through another lens can help improve your earnings and experience – overall. I’ll cover how to think differently when it comes to camming today.

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Look At The Webcam Business Through A Different Lens

Famous words to live by (literally) and they were said by none other than Apple’s own late Steve Jobs. He knew what he was talking about, obviously. Although he was speaking in terms of computers, it really is a great motto to live every aspect of your life by.

Forget The Competition

Stop looking at competition and thinking of how you can do things better than them. Think about how you can do things differently.

For example, you watch another cam girl’s room. You say to yourself “Man, she is really awesome at the hard sell.” She’s constantly pushing for a sale, like a used car salesman that never gives up and never lets you leave without signing on the dotted line.

Now, you try and copy what she’s doing down to a T and you may be successful, hell, you may even be better… but let’s think for a second about how we could do things differently instead. How about mixing soft sells with hard sells? Mixing the art of the hard sell and using it with a subtle sell delivery.

Stop Trying To Copy

When it comes down to it, there is nothing that you can do that will ever be exactly the same as what another person does. That’s why you can always tell the difference between an original and a copy. Sure, they might be almost identical but they never quite match up. Why would anyone want to be a copy of something else anyway?

The Bad Eggs

Let’s take the example of affiliates for big-box cam sites like Streamate.com. A lot of models do not like white labels because there are a few bad eggs that unfortunately give a bad name to the whole bunch.

The models complain about them recording their shows, posting them on tube sites, tweeting out their pics without tagging them, associating them with not-so-good studios, the list goes on and on. Constantly there is something going on in this realm.

There is always a model who is trying to get their shows taken down off of an affiliate site only to get the run around by said affiliate.

Brand Use

The models are upset because their brand is being used and they aren’t getting any type of credit for it, and if they point it out, then they are talked to like they aren’t worth a damn.

It can be a pretty nasty system. So here’s where the “Think different, not better” comes in. Instead of thinking about how affiliates should do things better (which we all know will not be changing any time soon.) We should be thinking about how we can do things differently. Imagine if 10 models created white labels, and then also created affiliate programs for said white label.

Then each model signed up for the other affiliate program and traded promo content for each other. All of a sudden, instead of having the affiliates steal your content and not give you credit… you as the model are taking control, and all of the models are making each other money by using the model’s affiliate link when they use their brand to promote their white label. Still with me?

This Doesn’t Help

It doesn’t get rid of the problem, but if you can’t get out of it, then you might as well get into it. This would put much more industry control in the hands of the models, as well as provide a supportive community for everyone to come together and constantly make each other money.

Next thing you know, the affiliates that aren’t models don’t have the same type of access to the promo materials (because models aren’t creating it voluntarily for them, like they are for the models they are signed up as affiliates with) and so who starts to be the big breadwinners? The Models.

Snapchat…

Another example is Snapchat. Models started out on Snapchat with either just a public Snapchat or a private Snapchat. Then after debating on how to do it better, most models created two separate accounts, one for the public and one for the premium. This is all well and good and serves its purpose, however, it’s a lot of work to run two separate accounts. So instead of doing things better, how about we do them a little differently?

Create ONE Snapchat account and run your private and your premium from the same account. (You can do this by going to your settings and changing who can view your story from Public to CUSTOM.

Even after you switch back to public view, the snaps posted on your storyline during the custom setting will only be viewable by those who were on the approved list.) Voila! A way to do things differently.

Conclusion

Are you picking up what I’m laying down yet? Obviously, the examples above are just that…examples. You can mix and match and try different things out to see what works for you and what doesn’t.

But the truth of the matter is that until we stop trying to be cookie-cutter versions who compete with each other using the same type of style and hustle, we won’t be living up to our maximum potential.

So I urge you, I implore you to start doing yourself a favor and when you are getting ready to log on to your cam room, or film a new video, or start a new project… that you take a second and start to think different, not better.

The Webcam Stage Five Clinger

Alright, so today’s topic is rather important. We’re going to be covering something that we hate to have to cover, but it’s necessary. The stage 5 clinger! I hate this person and they end up costing me time and money, so it’s 100% necessary to discuss this with you. Check this out and let me know if you have any questions. Feel free to leave comments below if so!

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The Stage 5 Clinger

We’ve all heard of them, and most of us have probably either been one or had one…. but just for the sake of this conversation, we are going to pretend that we all need a definition, and what better source than our trusty friend Urban Dictionary?

Stage Five Clinger: likely to become overly attached, overly fast. Virgins, those on the rebound, and the emotionally fragile are more likely to have this term applied to them.

Example: “Dude stage five clinger just text me again, she wants me to spit in her mouth.”

Stage 5 Clinger

How Many?

As a cam-girl, you will inevitably run into approximately 1 to 1 million stage five clingers through the span of your career. It’s just statistics. *shrugs* Some of you may be sitting there wondering whether or not you have one already? Don’t worry, you don’t. Trust and believe that when you do get one, you will know without question. I like to think of the stage five clingers as an occupational hazard.

Something that comes along with the territory of the profession that we have all chosen to be in. Are they fun? Hell no. Are they entertaining? Of course not… Well, sometimes they are, but usually only because you can’t believe the lengths they go through to have attention. I have banned many a clinger because they don’t know how to abide by rules, and they take so much energy that sometimes you have to stop and ask yourself “is the juice really worth the squeeze?”

What You Must Know

Stage Five Clingers aren’t your normal attached regular, though at first, they might fool you into believing that they are just like anyone else. They will weasel their way into your Snapchat and your cam rooms like the slimy, tricky little buggers they are, so let’s go over some of the signs to be on the lookout for.

1. They become Entitled Little Bitches. Let me elaborate. They start to form feelings and think that they are in an actual relationship with you, so they can’t understand why you don’t spend every waking moment talking to them or giving them something for free because they’ve “given” you so much. This brings me to…

2. “But I’ve given you so much” Cue the eye-roll, please. This is a classic line and will be used in some shape or form at some point. This is where you need to be clear at what the difference between “giving” and “purchasing” is.

3. “Babe, can’t I just have it?” Any variation on this phrase, even a hint of them trying to get something for free after they’ve been loyal spenders is a sure sign that they are starting to feel like they deserve special treatment, and also a big red flag to let you know that you should RUN. RUN FAR AWAY. (unless clingers are your thing.. In which case. JACKPOT!)

4. No Sense of Boundaries .. and when I say no sense, I mean NO SENSE of boundaries. At all. You will start to realize that for some people it is a necessity of reminding them that you are running a business and when you are talking to them you are working. Yeah, it would be nice if this was an unspoken rule, but people forget that your time is money, so it’s extremely important that you maintain the control of everything at all times.

I once had a guy call me on Skype at 5 AM in the morning for no reason except to test his feed and say hi. (Aca’scuse me? Are you out of your mind, bro?!) BLOCKED FOR LIFE.

Didn’t give him the show he was supposed to be receiving the next day and sent him a very long email explaining why he was no longer going to be a client of mine and how crazy it was that he thought he had the right to call me whenever he wanted. Do not EVER be afraid to say “Having the ability to talk with me/contact me is a privilege, one that you can lose and never be able to gain back.” Anyone who has a problem with that is a giant douche and not worth your time anyway.

5. Gets possessive and jealous when you go private with other clients. I feel like this should go without saying, but please, for the love of god, do not let any person get away with this BS. I don’t care how much money they have spent on you, or how much you actually like them. It is one of the highest levels of disrespect (in my opinion) for them to think they are more important than your other clients, or your money.

Conclusion

Now, originally this was going to be the part of the article where I delve into all the different ways that you can handle stage-five clingers, but now that I think about it, there isn’t really much to delve into. You either put up with them and hustle them for all their worth and then cut them off when they stop spending, or you cut them off before they can even start.

If you’re not sure which way is the way for you, see what you’re able to handle without wanting to blow your f’ing brains out. Maybe your tolerance level is that of a saint and you will be able to take on all the clingers of all the lands while taking all of their money.. and that’s what the main point is. Don’t ever let a clinger come between your money and your time. If that happens- they have gone too far. Money over bitches, every damn day.

Avoiding Webcam Scams (Must-Know Tips)

Scams happen all the time. You need to be on alert 24/7 if you’re a cam girl. This article paves the path for models looking to understand how to avoid webcam scams. If you’re not thinking about this, then you are definitely getting scammed now or in the future – TRUST ME. This is perhaps the most important thing you might read today. Find out how to avoid getting completely ripped off by camming consumers today.

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How To Avoid Being Scammed On Webcam

Scammer. Scam-artist. Connoisseur of the Scam. Zé art of zé scam. No matter how you slice and dice it, the fact remains the same. If it seems to be too good to be true, it usually is.
Here’s the deal, kids. In this industry, we’re all going to be victims of the attempted scam. Granted, some of them are miserable excuses of an attempt and can hardly be considered “scam worthy” but once in a while, every so often you get the diamond in the rough. The one that either almost gets you, or (god forbid) actually does.

These guys are professionals. Not to be taken lightly. If you aren’t careful, they will come in and steal your sunshine, your panties, your content, and your happiness. So, how do we help prevent these nasty predators from succeeding in their disgusting, freeloading ways?

Stay On Gaurd 24/7

First things first, never let your guard down. Scammers are always looking for a way to sneak in through the cracks and get you to trust them before they pull a bait and switch on you and get a bunch of free sh*t. There are going to be the ones who pretend to be “promoters” on social media and say things like “Hey babe, want a shout out? Can I get some personal nudes and maybe your Snapchat in return?” (ugh. Go die, please.)

AMZN + Paypal Scams

Then you’re going to get the “Paypal. BB? Amazon Gift Cards BB?” guys. The rare occasion does happen where these are really guys asking if you accept this form of payment, but more often than not scammers will send you fake gift cards, send you PayPal and then report your account and get their money back, etc.

Because of this, it’s super important to be extremely informed about all the ways you do accept payment, and never waiver on what you’re comfortable with receiving until you do your research.

Trickle Coin Tony

Then you’re going to get the guys who might even drop a little bit of money on you at first. I call these guys “trickle coin tony.” These are the quintessential starting line-up of the game. They make you think they are legit by purchasing something, might be a big thing, might be a small thing… And then they try to scam you out of your panties by saying that they will “send the money tomorrow.”

Common phrases attached to these kinds are:

“I’m going to take care of you”

“I can’t use a credit card anymore because I don’t want it on my statement”

“I’ll send everything later, you know I’m good for it.”

“I got you.” “I see you” or any other variation on this stupid phrase.

Nope. No. No way, no how.

These guys are trying to get you to lower your guard because hey, they’ve spent on you before, right? That must mean that they are always going to spend on you with their thousands of dollars. Even if they don’t right away… It will pay off in the long haul, right? WRONG-O!

No Rule Bending – Ever

This brings me right into my second point. Do not bend the rules for anybody, unless you are 100% certain that they are legitimate, and even then… be wary. There are many a tale of the regular turned freeloader who pillaged and plundered his way through all the naïve camgirls by land and sea, so stay firm in your guidelines and make them either follow them or leave.

Always read through EVERYTHING (yes, even the fine print), and then if you’re not sure, google it and make sure. Check, and then double-check….and then go back and check it again!
Basically, just make sure to cover all your bases and always be informed, because some of these guys are good. Like…Tom Hardy in everything he’s in kind of good. Not amateur, not easy to spot, and will 9/10 times get the scam stamped with a big red COMPLETE.

Example Time!!

Guy wants Snapchat. He says he’s new at purchasing these kinds of things, acts like he tries to set up any accounts he needs to in order to pay and claims that it won’t work. Asks if he can send a gift card. He sends a “gift card” that asks for you to put in all of your legal and banking information and requires you to start an account in order to “redeem” the money. See where this is going?

This is a great scam because it provides the model with the illusion that he is trying hard to purchase content and is having a hard time. His goal here is to create a sense of guilt so that you will give in to accepting a gift card payment that you don’t normally accept. Then he slides in with one that will be extremely easy for him to either get your information from, or to get a refund on his money after he receives what he’s “paying” for.

The Agency Scam

Another popular scam is the “modeling agency” or the “magazine photographer” that will contact you on social media and say they are interested in shooting (or insert any other appropriate term for what they are claiming here).

Ask For References

Never be afraid to ask for references and samples of their work. It’s common practice to ask for references on an application, and why wouldn’t you want to fully screen anyone that you’re considering working with anyway?

If they can’t provide references, past models they’ve worked with who you can reach out with, samples of their previous work, or proof of what they are saying they can do for you, then move along. They are either scamming you or else they are unbelievably unprofessional, and you shouldn’t want to work with them anyway.

Conclusion

This could turn into a novel on its own if I kept going into details about all of the different ways that people have either tried with me or one of my cam friends, but suffice it to say that if you run your career like it’s a business, you will be able to avoid the majority of the scammers. Keep an eye out, be smart, be safe and if you do encounter a scammer, call them out on social media to warn the other models.

Webcam Whitelabels: Every Model Needs One!

Did you know that you can have your very own webcam site? Seriously! Many models don’t know this, but it’s very easy to brand your name as a webcam site through the use of a Whitelabel. Today I’m going to be sharing everything I know about Whitelabel cam sites and why you might consider creating one yourself.

A note: Many models may think that this is taking away from themselves and sending to other models, but the truth is, many consumers are going to cam with other girls anyway. So, to make the most money, you might as well try and cash in on those connections as well. You can do this with a Whitelabel!

Second note: This is a topic that I’m updating. I covered this in the past and just want to point things out again this year.

Webcam Whitelabels

Whitelabels: The Ins/The Outs and Why You Should Have One

If you’re a camgirl, then you probably know about white labels already, and like most other models in the business have a deep-rooted, intense hatred for the affiliates of white labels and everything that comes along with it.

Of course by saying “everything that comes along with it” I mean the horrible affiliates that are usually behind the scenes of the white labels, screenshotting your pics, recording your shows to upload onto tube sites, and being a general pain in the ass when you decide that you want them to take down your videos. (DMCA’S BITCHES!)

I know, and I agree with the fact that some of the affiliates that are the ones running these white labels are complete jerks who have no idea what it’s like to be on the other side of the industry. (Side note: This isn’t always the case. It’s one of those, the few bad apples make it harder on the rest of them) All they care about is the bottom line and making money, which is understandable. However, my motto in life is “If you can’t get out of something, get into it” and that applies here just as much as any other place.

White Labels Bring Us Consumers

White Labels are a part of the camming industry. It makes sense. The cam companies are, in essence, paying affiliates to bring traffic to the site by giving them a percentage of all the sales that they bring in.

There are white label opportunities for almost every major cam site, and there is no reason to limit yourself to only one, but just for the sake of streamlining this article, we’re going to focus on Cambuilder.com, which is Streamate’s Whitelabel program. There are a couple of reasons why I am choosing Cambuilder, one of which being that it is the white label I use, as well as being the most popular option out of all the affiliate programs out there.

There are five options that you can choose from as far as payouts go on Cambuilder.com.

35% Lifetime Revenue Share

$75 per spender + 30% Lifetime Revenue Share

$30 per join + 30% Lifetime Revenue Share

$100 per spender

$40 per join

All of them have their pros and cons, but if you’re in it for the long haul for long-term passive income, 35% rev-share for life is the best plan overall.

They’re All Quite Similar

Regardless of which Whitelabel you decide to use, the inner workings are all pretty much the same. They will offer you a rev-share of the sales that you bring in. As a model, it doesn’t make sense to NOT take advantage of this.

Even if the only time you promote the white label is when you are getting online, if you get sign-ups it guarantees that no matter who they spend on, you are making money. (In Cambuilder.com’s case, 35% off every model they spend on, which would be the exact same as if they were spending on you.)

Post Registration

After the signup, it’s a relatively painless process. You, of course, need to purchase a domain name for your white label. This can be whatever you wish for it to be, but keeping it simple and easy to remember is going to be your best bet.

After you have the domain name purchased, it’s time to set up your white label. On Cambuilder.com it gives you easy-to-use templates that let you customize the look and feel of your site. It literally “click and point” easy. You can upload your own logos, change the color theme, change the size and the look of the model’s icons, etc.

Promote Yourself & Other Cam Girls

After that first step, the next step is going to be promoting your white label. A lot of models that I know only use their domain when they are getting online. While that works wonderfully, I feel like it is a missed opportunity. The second that I got a white label, I reached out to other models who either had one themselves or models on the site asking them if they would be okay with me promoting them…I haven’t had a single one say no yet.

Conclusion: Just Start One

This brings me to my major point. IF YOU ARE A CAM MODEL THEN YOU SHOULD HAVE A WHITE LABEL. Look, nothing is going to change overnight. There are always going to be some bad apple affiliates running the white labels that bring us the shitty traffic, treat us like dirt and give every other affiliate out there a bad name.

But if you can’t get out of it, get into it. If you don’t like something, then be part of the change. Think about how different it would be if models all created white labels and traded promotional material.

Not only are you supporting each other in the industry, but all of a sudden you have so much more promo available to you versus the affiliates that only have your shows they recorded, and have models breathing down their neck to take them down.

Add on top of that fact that, as a model, you have much more incentive to give people for signing up. “Sign up, spend $5 and get a free vid!” Kind of deals, that will start having checks show up in your mailbox without you ever getting on cam. Passive income ladies, now let’s all get together and get rich. 😉

Final Note: You also should really check out Camsoda.com because they have an incredible whitelabel and team that supports models in any way needed. I strongly suggest that if you’re a Camsoda model, then get your own Camsoda whitelabel going ASAP! It’s a great way to make money on Camsoda – EASY!

Interview With Sasha Meow (Personal Facts)

Today I’ve got a special treat for you. It’s not every day that we get a cam model willing to share her experiences. Today we’re covering a bunch of stuff about Sasha Meow. I’m talking really cool fun facts about her personally and she also shares some super crazy cam show stories with us. Check her out and the entire interview that we did with her.

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Sasha Meow Profile Facts

Here are all the facts about Sasha Meow that you’ve been dying to know. I know that Sasha has a lot of cam fans as well as models who look up to her for her success streaming online, including Skype sex shows. For those of you looking for more insider information about her and the personal facts, here’s what you need to know. Keep in mind, some of these things are very personal and some people are not willing to share everything – rightfully so…

Name: Sasha Meow
Also Known As: None
Gender: Female
Hair Color: Brunette
Age: Ask Her
Birthplace: Ask Her
Country of Origin: Ask Her
Date of Birth: Unknown
Height: 5’4″
Boob Size: Perfect
Breast (Real or Fake?): Natural Boobs
Sexual Preference: Straight
Weight: 110 lbs
Ethnicity: Latin
Tattoos: Yes, a few
Piercings: Cam with her to see
Zodiac Sign: Unknown
Other Facts: Likes stripping, enjoys getting oral

Model Interview – Getting To Know Sasha Meow

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What do you normally do when you are on cam? How do you feel when you are working?

I normally just lay in bed, play music, twerk have fun. The guys make me feel great. It’s someone telling you you’re beautiful every 2 mins. It’s great.

Are you able to easily tell new boyfriends/lovers about your work? If yes, how do they react??

It’s 50/50 really. Some guys are cool, while others are pussies and can’t handle it.

How has it changed you in terms of your attitudes to sex and in the bedroom when you are having sex???

I’m still the same. Nothing has changed. I’m always horny.

What are some of the craziest fantasies that guys come up with?

One guy paid me to 3-way call his girlfriend, while he was on the phone (jerking off), and tell her that her bf is cheating on her with me and I fucking like it. It was insane but pretty funny and fun.

What is your opinion on the male species after working in the industry??

They’re fucking dogs and liars.

What is your ultimate fantasy?

Fucking two guys at once. But I want to do that for my 40th birthday.. somewhere in Europe.

What are the positives from the work and what would you recommend to anyone wanting to get into it???

It’s good money! Fast and easy money!

Words of wisdom for cam models?

Don’t listen to mean guys in chat rooms or Twitter. Don’t take anything too personal. You’re beautiful.

What is your proudest accomplishment from being a cam girl?

Being able to move to new york city and being able to afford it.

What is your favorite food?

Cuban food

What is something that rocks your world?

Comedy, improv, stand up, writing, dick.

I love my fans because…

They pay me and laugh at my jokes.

What is your biggest pet peeve?

Guys that don’t wash their hands, cheap guys, girls who only post selfies on IG.

First thing I do when I wake up in the morning:

Drink coffee…

The last thing I do before falling asleep:

Smoke a joint and masturbate.

Wrapping Things Up

If you’re liking these model interviews that I’m doing, please let me know because I’ll keep doing them. One thing I regret not asking about is squirting on cam. Lots of people ask about this and I totally forgot. But next time I will! I know that many people love Sasha Meow and models love her honesty. So, if you’re seeing something that you love, then please let me know!

Interview With Cam Model Selena Adams

Today we’ve got a special treat for you and anyone else looking to learn facts about a true winner in the camming industry. This is an interview with Selena Adams, an adult model who’s very successful on live cams. Find out what we covered here, personal information, camming work lifestyle, her desires, and more!

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Personal Facts About Selena Adams

Here are some personal facts and pornstar profile information that you might find interesting. I know many of her fans as well as fellow camming friends enjoyed this info and interview. Check it out and learn more today.

Name: Selena Adams
Also Known As: Selene Adams
Gender: Female
Hair Color: Black
Age: 32
Birthplace: Miami, Florida
Country of Origin: United States of America
Date of Birth: June 6, 1989
Height: 5’4″
Boob Size: 38DDD
Breast (Real or Fake?): Fake Boobs
Sexual Preference: Straight
Weight: 161 lbs
Ethnicity: Latin
Tattoos: Yes
Piercings: Yes
Zodiac Sign: Gemini
Twitter: @selenaadams69
Instagram: @officialselenaadams3

Selena Adams on Cam

Getting To Know, Top Webcam Model, Selena Adams

Here are some of the questions that we asked Selena Adams when interviewing her. We pretty much covered all things camming-related, but you might find some more information as well.

 What do you normally do when you are on cam?

Typically, I do a few things to help me stay relaxed while I’m online: I’ll turn on some of my favorite music and dance around, which is always a fan favorite when they get to see me shake my booty; I try to chat with my fans as much as possible and sometimes I have these very interesting conversations with them, you’d be surprised about some of the stuff they talk about; I’ll also turn on the tv and watch some of my favorite shows in the background, you know just to keep up with the season. I try my best to keep my stress level down when I work.

How do you feel when you are working?

I typically feel good, especially when my followers are keeping me active. I do try to avoid logging on when I’m in a bad/sad mood since it affects the energy of the room.

Are you able to easily tell new boyfriends/lovers about your work? If yes, how do they react?

I’m open about what I do and yes I do tell them about my work. Now easily is a different story as they tend to struggle with some jealously. Who wouldn’t be a bit jealous of having their girlfriend be hit on, talked dirty, seeing them on cam, and sending them gifts by many fans. But it’s part of the profession.

How has it changed you in terms of your attitudes to sex and in the bedroom when you are having sex?

When you cam, you get to experience a lot of different things through the fans with what they request and with what they like to show you. And because of this, in my actual relationship have become more selective with the type of person and what we do in the bedroom.

What are some of the craziest fantasies that guys come up with?

Sometimes, they like to pretend that they are under my bed spying on me while I do my thing. Others like to pretend that their wife/girlfriend is in the next room while they are being naughty with me. Then there is the I’m the wife’s/girlfriend’s friend and you can guess where that leads to.

What is your opinion on the male species after working in the industry?

This is a difficult question. I only get to see a portion of the male behavior through camming and I still haven’t really figured them out. But what I can say, there are a handful of horny men out there.

What is your ultimate fantasy?

Wow, my ultimate fantasy, let me think… It starts off with me at my front door about to enter my home when suddenly I am grabbed from behind by a man. With my chest against the door, he puts my hands over my head. He begins to kiss my neck and shoulders. He suddenly turns me around and continues to kiss my face, neck, and cleavage area.

He then picks me up and I wrap my legs around him. He opens the door and carries me up the stairs as we continue to kiss. He throws me on the bed and begins to strip me down to my bra and panty. I rip open his button shirt causing his buttons to fly everywhere.

I begin to kiss his chest and work my way down to his crotch. I unbutton his jeans and remove them off his body. He grabs my hair and tells me to stand. He looks into my eyes and kisses me right on the lips. He then throws me down on the bed face up and begins to slowly nibble me all over the body.

He slowly works his way down from my neck to my chest, removing my bra, kissing my breasts. He begins to suck on my nipples. With every sucking motion, I begin to get aroused as my nipples begin to harden. He slowly has my nipples rock hard, he then continues to move down eventually reaching my private area.

He teases my vagina on top of my panty. He kisses my inner thighs and at this point, I’m so aroused that my vagina is wet and begins to leak through the panty. He then rips them off… well I’ll let you imagine the rest but let’s say we end up making love all night long.

What are the positives from the work and what would you recommend to anyone wanting to get into it?

There are a couple of positives about this work. The first is you can set your own schedule, work when it best suits you. The second is financial freedom. You can make good money if you are willing to put effort into it.

Do you have any words of wisdom for girls wanting to become cam models?

For those new models, I have two things to say to them. First, you’re working as an independent contractor so don’t forget to set aside some money so you’re able to pay the taxes when tax season comes along.

Second, don’t give up easily. It does take some time to build your fan base so just keep at it. One good piece of advice to keep in touch with your fans is to use one of the various texting apps. I currently use Skype to stay in contact with my fans nearly 24/7.

What is your proudest accomplishment from being a cam girl?

Everyone has goals that they are trying to accomplish and I have had this goal for some time now that will be my proudest accomplishment once it is completed this year. I don’t want to mention exactly what it is because I don’t want to jinx it before it is done.

What is your favorite food?

Well, I got to say that my favorite food is a Bandeja Paisa. For those who don’t know what this is, it’s a traditional Colombian dish that typically contains beans, rice, chicharrón (fried pork belly), Carne en Polvo ( powdered like beef) or grilled beef/pork, chorizo, fried egg, ripe plantain, avocado, and arepa. Trust me, if you haven’t tried it, you should.

What is something that rocks your world?

This might be a bit strange for you but it is something that really excites me. When I’m able to pay something off where it now belongs to me, I get aroused to the point I get a bit wet. I guess it’s my fetish.

I love my fans because…

They make my work interesting. Apart from being horny and entertaining, they’re also funny and sweet. They know how to make a girl smile.

What is your biggest pet peeve?

When it comes to working, I have to say beggars – the guys that constantly ask for things for free. Then when I don’t do what they asked for, they get mad at me even though I mention they need to tip or go private. Some just don’t understand that this is my source of income and if I give it away then I won’t be able to pay my bills.

First thing I do when I wake up in the morning:

As I wake up in the morning and stretch my naked body out across my bed, I try to figure out what needs to be done today. If I don’t have anything to do, I just get ready for work. But if I have things to do, I finish those first then I get ready for work. I try to make this a daily ritual so I don’t let things pile up.

The last thing I do before falling asleep:

My nightly ritual, which sometimes I do wearing just shorts/panties or even sometimes completely naked, is to go into my bathroom, look in the mirror, give myself some words of encouragement, remove my makeup and brush my teeth before I jump into bed to recharge my battery.

Conclusion: Wrapping Things Up

A special thanks to Selene Adams for everything that she shared with us. We truly appreciate it and thanks for helping out the fellow cam girls such as myself who are trying to make it happen! You’re an inspiration to all of us.

Please do not copy my site!

Thanks,

Sarah