Author - Sarah G

We all know how important it is to have a killer profile on cam sites. Well, hands-down the best way for any cam model to make sure they have people to support their shows is to host a fan club. It might sound like something that only happens in the “mainstream” world, but there are fan clubs for plenty of adult models out there. Trust me, these fans are loyal AF and they will spend money – guaranteed!

The best thing about running your own fan club is that you get to choose what gets shared and what doesn’t. You’re the one deciding what material gets saved behind a paywall and what gets posted for free. It’s always up to you and you get to invite your fan base to be a part of any new endeavor.

Fan Club Advice For Cam Models

Without wasting any time, here’s what you should consider and why…

Adding Subscriptions To Your Fan Site

You’re also going to want to look into selling subscriptions to your fans. There are plenty of sites on the internet that cater to exactly that. What it lets you do is take in monthly or weekly fees in exchange for regular updates.

They can be photos, videos, or pretty much anything you want. You just have to be consistent with your output. If people are paying for weekly content, then they need to get weekly content. Otherwise, they’re just giving you money for nothing and no one is going to do that willingly.

Upload Before You Launch

Whether it’s a subscription service or a fan club, you’re going to want to populate it with content before you launch it. You can’t expect people to sign up for a service that they can’t see first.

You’ll want a decent backlog of material that they can go through while waiting for your new content to come out. They’ll also be able to see that the archives are constantly growing and that will give them more than enough reason to sign up for it.

Queue Up Your Posts

One of the most important things that you want to do is to create a queue. You can schedule your posts to come out as often as you want. You just want to have at least a month’s worth of uploads already finished.

That will let them come out regularly with no interruptions. This means you can focus on live shows and private shows while your fans think you’re actively updating the fan club.

It doesn’t matter what you have going on at the time. You know that your posts are coming out as they’re supposed to. Any new content that you make just goes to the end of the line. It’s the best way to run any sort of content business.

Introductory Rates Get Them In

To get loyal customers that always give you their business, it’s a great idea to offer an introductory rate. This is something that you want to do right from the beginning, though.

If someone is a customer for six months, then sees that you’re giving newcomers a break in the price that they’re not getting, they’re not going to be loyal to you for much longer. Set your prices and give someone a discount for signing up right from the beginning and it will bring in plenty of customers for 1.

Now if someone cancels or leaves, you can offer them a win back via email. You’ll have to check the terms with whatever merchant you’re using, but chances are you can get them back with a discount offer.

Promote As Much As You Can

Once you have your fan club set up and running, you have to start promoting it. Once you start, you can never stop. It has to be a constant in your life. The more you promote yourself, the more people will join your club. It’s really that simple.

You can do it on social media and you can do it on adult sites. You always want to have your Twitter account updated at all times. Let the people know about your introductory rates and let them know about your new posts. You can also share clips on plenty of cam sites out there. Show yourself off and there will always be people looking to buy more.

The Money Adds Up

You might be looking at all of the work you have to put in and seeing it as a lost leader. That’s not the case at all. Just because you’re only charging a small amount per subscription doesn’t mean that you’re not making a lot of money.

Charging $15 per person is going to add up very quickly. Just having 100 people in your club is going to net you $1,500 a month. The more you promote and post, the more people will come. 1000 paying customers will bring in $15,000 per month and that’s nothing to sneeze at.

Network And You’ll Succeed

Get in good with other cam models and cross-promote each other. Advertise your fan club as much as you can. Just keep on working at it and you’ll see it all start to grow. Before you know it, you’ll be able to fully support yourself on nothing but photos and videos that you post. It’s the best way to live a life that anyone’s ever come up with besides being independently wealthy.

Now, I must add, while this fan club money is good, there is way more money in live exclusive shows for sure! That holds especially true if you’ve got special skills and are comfortable doing fetish shows. Heck, if you can squirt for fans, then you’ll make it rain – pun intended!

There are a lot of fetishes that people have today. Consumers often look towards cam models to help get them off. When they have fetishes that they like but are afraid to ask someone, they often turn to us to fulfill that fantasy. This is where we can really clean up and make bank! This blog post covers everything you need to know about fur fetish and why consumers love fur as well as faux fur!

Fur Fetish Guide For Cam Models

Not everyone knows what the fur fetish is. If you don’t have it or haven’t had a client ask about it, then chances aren’t all that high of you coming across it. That doesn’t mean it’s not a very lucrative way to make your living. There are more than enough men and women out there who enjoy the fur fetish just as much as other people enjoy leather or spandex.

Just thinking about a woman (yourself even) wearing a fur will give you a good idea of what it’s all about. There are the sensations that come from the material itself. Then there are the attributes that are afforded to the person.

To the consumer with a fur fetish, a woman in fur is dominant. She’s wealthy.

In fact, she’s wealthy because she dominates you and takes your money. The findom fetish goes hand in hand with the fur fetish. That’s what makes it such a great way to make money with your cam and your body.

How To Give A Fur Show

Once you’re in your cam show with your furs, you have to figure out what to do. You can’t just sit there with the coats on and expect the tips to roll in. You need a hook that you offer and no one else does. Fetishists know where to look and they can find attractive girls in coats wherever they want.

Adding sex to your fur play is always a good way to get started. Fur fetishists are always interested in seeing fur get someone off. Balling it up and riding it is an action that will start to get you the attention that you want.

Just try wrapping it around a pillow and humping it on cam to see how many new fans it brings into your room. Just think of any way that you, as a wealthy and luxury-loving woman would use such an expensive piece of clothing for nothing more than something to rub on her intimate areas.

Fur And Feet

The fur fetish and the foot fetish can go hand in hand. You don’t have to go out on a limb to see how. All it really takes is a plush fur and a naked pair of feet.

Men and women love to see their dominants run their toes through fur, or simply walk all over it. You can also let your shoes dangle over them with the threat of them falling off bringing in more and more people.

Money And The Fetish

The one thing you really have to realize is that you’re never going to make much money with fur alone. The niche is intense, but it’s also small. You could be one of the biggest fur fetish providers around and still not pull in much money.

What it takes is mixing the fur fetish with other fetishes. Think of a fur as a steroid shot to the other fetishes you’re using to make money. You’ll end up pulling in two different fan bases at the same time, along with their money.

Keeping Yourself Safe

The fur fetish can’t be mentioned without having to spend some time on PETA and other animal rights activists. There are more than enough of them out there and they love to harass people.

Reasoning with them is next to impossible. That’s why it’s so important to keep yourself safe. Limit your interactions on mainstream social media sites. They’ll always find you.

You’re also going to need to make sure you keep your location completely private. You can only get so many people threatening to burn down your house before you come across someone who’s actually crazy enough to do it.

Getting Your Furs

If you’re looking into the fur fetish then the chances of you already having one are pretty high. That’s going to be your starting point. Use it to begin growing your fan base.

You’re going to be surprised at just how many people are willing to buy you some brand new furs to see on your shows. Make sure you incorporate as many of them as you possibly can.

Doing cam shows that only involve you putting on furs over furs is always a good idea. Once you find the people who really love the fetish, you shouldn’t have to do much to keep them rolling in. Just grow your collection as large as you possibly. You’ll want a fur for any play that you can think of, then you’ll want a few more.

If you do have to buy some furs, just think about it as investing in yourself as a business. It’s a necessary step that will only serve to help you pull in more fans that are willing to pay to see what you do with the furs that they love so much. It’s a great way to make some great money and have something to add to your other fetishes.

Okay, so as you know, I’ve covered some taboo fetishes over the years. There’s a really strong demand in these niches with the strongest probably being foot related. Feet pics can pay your mortgage or rent – NO LIE. Some models do nothing but show their feet to consumers because they make it rain when they do! Here’s what you need to know about selling feet pics and profiting like crazy.

Make Money Selling Foot Pics

As I said, there’s big money in this. If you’re on the market for finding a way to make money without a major time or resource dedication sell foot pics! There are women doing this all over the world right now and they’re able to make a decent living off of it. All you really have to do is follow a few simple steps to get yourself up and running.

Once you find your customer base, you’ll have people coming to you, buying pics for fees, paying high fees to do live stream shows, and more. Honestly, it’s a service that practically runs itself. Here’s what you need to know about this foot fetish niche.

Foot Care Is Important

The very first thing you have to do is make sure your product is presentable and sellable. You can’t expect people to spend money on dirty and uncared for feet. Sure, some consumers might ask for more specific dirty feet pics, but most want clean pretty pics.

You have to make sure that they’re something someone actually wants to see in the first place. That means cleaning them and maintaining them. Getting a pedicure is always something you should be doing (for personal care alone).

Make it part of your routine and get one every few weeks. You’ll also have to make sure you’re cleaning your feet just as well as you’d clean your face. They’re going to be in the public view and they need to be impeccable. Not too mention, this will keep your nails and cuticles healthy.

Get Your Customer Base

The next thing you have to worry about is getting your customers. They’re not just going to start showing up in your inbox or chatroom without you putting in the work first. Social media is a good start but it’s only going to take you so far.

Cam sites are really your best option here. All it takes is a few hours in live shows and you’ll have people following you every time you log on. That’s when you can invite them to buy your foot pics from you. Make no mistake about it, you’ll have to put in some work on the front end as camming does take work.

Make Sure You Can Get Paid

You’re also going to have to make sure you can get paid for your pics. You’ll need a platform that lets customers send you money. While Paypal is usually everyone’s first solo choice, it’s not always the best for this. There are other payment apps out there that cater to sex work. Ultimately, you’ll want a few different ways to accept your money.

You don’t want to get yourself into a position of having to turn someone away because you can’t get the money they want to send you. The absolute best way to go about collecting money is via the cam site of your choice. Let consumers pay you tokens, bucks, credits, whatever for the pics.

Have Pics Ready To Go

Most of the people who buy your pics are going to want them taken specifically for them. That’s perfectly fine and it’s what you should be doing for them. It still doesn’t hurt to have a collection of pics that you’ve already taken that are ready to be sent. This is great for the people who just want something quick and simple.

You can also use the pics as examples to see your personalized pics. Just focus on the three main parts of the foot; the toes, the soles, and the arches. Have them in an easy to remember the location where you can just grab and go. Heck, save them on your iPhone and you’re good to go!

Watermark Your Pics

You’re also going to want to look into watermarking your foot pics. It’s the best way that you can protect yourself from theft. Any person you send these to will be able to post them wherever they want. They can also use them to make their own money off of you. You never want that to happen.

There are plenty of online programs that you can use to add a small watermark to your pics. Once you do that, you’ll have recourse to get your pics taken down from any site where you didn’t post them. If anyone can get your pics for free, they’re not going to bother paying you for them.

I should also mention that this is a great way to up your branding reach. Some girls even add their website domain or cam profile to the pics as well.

Keep Marketing Yourself

Once you’ve made your way through all of the above steps, all you have to do is keep up with your marketing. Regular cam shows are really the best way to go about it. Set aside a few hours as often as possible. The more time you dedicate to your shows, the more customers you’ll have.

Each time you log on, you’ll be getting a new group of people who want to buy your pics. You’ll also have the option of giving live foot shows while you’re there. It’s yet another way for you to use your feet as a stream of income. You’ll be surprised at the number of people who want to get as much of your feet as they possibly can.

Conclusion

Well, that sums things up. Get your ducks in a row, start taking pics, make sure you’re ready for all the foot fetish fans to come running, and be ready to go live or send pics!

You’ll be making money in no time if you take the advice I’ve provided seriously and it’s time for you to take some action! Good luck and enjoy feeding your bank account all those feet funds!

There is probably nothing more exciting than sex. Sure, there are supposedly desserts that are “better than sex”, but whoever is saying that has had some crummy sex in their lives. Truthfully, sex, and specifically having an orgasm is one of life’s greatest joys.

So, what happens when your orgasms aren’t cooperating, or you just don’t have the stamina in bed to prolong the good times? Nobody wants to be “that guy”, who finishes too quickly and becomes known as a “two-pump chump.” Luckily, you don’t need to feel badly if that’s something that happens to you because it happens to most guys at some point in their lives.

Whether it be stress, a medical issue, you’re just too excited, whatever, one out of every three men will have trouble with not lasting as long as they like in the bedroom.

The biggest question from guys is always, “How can I last longer before having an orgasm?” And if you’re one of those guys, here are the tips that will not only help you increase your confidence, but also to help you last longer in bed.

Average Ejaculation Time

In a study done by the Journal of Sexual Medicine, it was found that the average time for ejaculation, that is the time between vaginal penetration and the act of ejaculation was an average of 5.4 minutes.

However, this isn’t really the norm; in a recent book on adult sex education found that most men reportedly finish within two minutes. For someone that has premature ejaculation, this time is a minute and under, no matter how hard you try to control yourself.

Even if you don’t have a premature ejaculation diagnosis proper, almost every guy would like to be able to extend his orgasms. If you’re looking for ways to last longer in bed, here are the best ways to do that:

Tips To Make Yourself Last Longer (Slow Your Orgasm)

I want to preface this section with all the legal mumbo-jumbo we’re supposed to include. If you’re having any issues with your orgasms, private parts, or any other health-related issue, you need to see a doctor. Yes, it’s going to be awkward, but you’re a grownup and you can do it.

I’m not going to scare you, but if you’re having issues with the private parts, you could have other issues going on and it’s always better to be safe than sorry in the long run. So, once you’ve got that medical checkup and things are ok in that area, you can then focus on these methods to last longer in bed.

#1: Kegels

Wait, aren’t those the things that women are supposed to do after they’ve had kids so they stop wetting themselves when they pick things up and to make it feel like less their man is throwing a hot dog down a hallway when they have sex?

Yep, just like women, men have pelvic floor muscles known as pubococcygeal (PC) muscles. You can find them by taking a pee, stopping the flow of the urine, and starting again. Those are the muscles.

To strengthen those muscles, it is recommended that you stand in the mirror naked and try to lift your testicles up or shorten your penis without using your hands.

It will be all muscle work and you’ll do this for 10-second increments for 10 rounds. Once you’ve seen how it works in the mirror, you can literally do this anywhere (with your damn pants on, please).

Research has shown that between 60 – 75% of men who have trouble prolonging their orgasms improved their rate strictly by practicing Kegels on a regular basis.

#2: Limit How Much You’re Thrusting

Let’s face it, if you’re thrusting like a wild rabbit, you’re getting yourself and your “good buddy” wound up for the final act. I know it feels good, but the more you thrust, the quicker you’re going to orgasm.

To last longer, use your penis to tease her clitoris, have her play with your penis, and do as minimal thrusting as you can until you’re ready. Heck, this might even make her squirt if you do it correctly.

#3: Try Out Edging

If you’re a guy, you’re going to masturbate. (Don’t lie and say you don’t) This is a great time to practice something known as edging.

Edging is getting yourself right to the point of an orgasm through manual stimulation, then backing off completely until you’ve got yourself back under control. Kind of seems like its defeating the purpose of a wank session, right?

But, according to sex therapists, edging helps your brain to get control of the orgasm response and allows you to last longer.

Oh, and speaking of masturbation, doctors at the Mayo Clinic recommend masturbation an hour or two prior to sex with a partner to help delay orgasming.

This works especially well if you haven’t had an orgasm in a while, which puts you more at risk for shooting off quickly. Masturbation should help you delay that climax, which is definitely a good thing.

Just be careful. If you try to do a rub-off too soon before a real sexual encounter, you might not be able to perform at all, so time it appropriately for your body.

#4: Let Her Finish First

We always hear “nice guys finish last” and in the bedroom, that might help you to last longer as well. Many good guys get very worked up if their partner doesn’t orgasm, putting even more pressure on themselves. Talk to your partner, find out what works for her, DO THOSE THINGS, and focus less on yourself.

Once she’s finished and feeling amazing, then it’s your turn.

#5: Use Condoms

Unless you’re in a monogamous relationship, you should be using condoms anyway. But, I won’t get on my soapbox other than to say, stay safe out there.

Now, most guys don’t like rubbers because, well, they suck. They feel different, you’re stopping what you’re doing to slip it on, they can break, yadda yadda yadda.

Here’s the good thing about them, besides the preventing sexually transmitted infections and unwanted pregnancies: if you choose a brand that is a little thicker, it helps to desensitize the feelings you’ll get and could help you prolong the time until you orgasm, thus helping you to last longer.

#6: Try Some Alternative Things

Now, the things I’m about to recommend are for those of you that are really struggling with lasting longer in bed. Of course, legal stuff here, contact your doctor first and make sure they are an OK option for you and your body, so things don’t go awry.

The first option is using anesthetic wipes. Companies like Roman offer up these wipes that have a bit of benzocaine in them, which will numb things down there, delaying the sensations necessary for an orgasm.

There are also sprays, topicals, and condoms that do the same things, but they can also cause your partner to be numbed as well. If you plan on using anything like that, make sure your partner has no allergies and is on board with trying out numbing agents first.

Another option is using technology. The FDA has approved something called Prolong, a device that helps you practice delaying ejaculation by jerking off into a $300 gadget over a period of six weeks.

There are also apps that help train you over a period of time to last longer and these may be something you want to try before spending the big bucks on an artificial vagina.

Finally, there is also the options of using medications, however, this is typically reserved for those with legit PE and are considered a last resort. Please, do not order pills from some unknown source online. There is no guarantee they are safe, and you have no idea where they’re coming from. Be safe!

Conclusion: To Last Longer, You’ve Got to Practice

It can be super stressful to come too quickly in bed. Every guy wants to last longer and when you can’t, you think something is wrong with you. Trust me, there is not a thing wrong with you if you shoot off too soon.

The good news is that most cases of coming too quickly can be worked on and fixed with a little practice. If you give these six tips a try, you’re sure to last longer and have the satisfying sex you are craving.

If you’ve spent any time on the internet at all, you’ve stumbled across the specialized discussion boards known as Reddit. Reddit started in 2005 and it’s a place where registered users can submit content such as links, images, and text which is then voted on by other members. You can find just about anything on Reddit, and posts are organized by subject into “sub-Reddits” with topics from current events to science to movies to fitness to, yep, you guessed it, sex. Today, I’m covering EVERYTHING you need to know about using Reddit in order to grow your brand as a cam model.

Official Reddit Guide For Cam Models

Reddit has over 330 million active monthly members, which means there are a lot of eyes looking at whatever is posted on the seventh most-visited site on the internet worldwide. If you’re a cam girl, that means you could actually use a site like Reddit to your advantage.

Maybe you’re saying, “But, how?” Well, let me first tell you that on Reddit, like just about everywhere else, sex is big. There are dozens of subreddits dedicated to sex and sexual topics, including r/CamSluts, a subreddit dedicated to cam girls, webcam girls, and amateurs who want to show off what they can do on video.

With 64% of Reddit users in the age demographics of 18-24 and over 40 million searches done daily on Reddit, your chances of exposure are pretty damn good, especially when you’re in a career that requires your name be “out there” like cam work does. If you’re a cam girl, here is how you can use Reddit to your advantage by becoming a Reddit cam girl.

The Cam Girl Community on Reddit

Cam work is competitive, especially now that the waters are so full of women (and men) who want to try their hands at making some bank online. What is great about the camming subreddits is that there are always people there that have done what you’re looking to do, have experience in all avenues of cam work, and are more than willing to be helpful when you’ve got any questions.

As much as you talk to people online as a cam worker, you’re pretty much in a career where you’re alone. There are no business meetings, no constructive criticism from bosses, and no real organization that you are working with. Plus, many people still stupidly look down on sex work of any type and sorry to say it, but cam work is considered sex work.

That’s a great reason to give the subreddits a try. You can connect with other cam workers and feel less alone and not at all judged like your friends may have a tendency to do. I know that has been one of the biggest benefits of Reddit for myself as a cam worker.

Getting Your Name Out There

Another positive of Reddit for cam workers is that you can post links to your work. As a cam girl, you’re probably using a site like Chaturbate or Cam Soda for work. Those are great sites, but you rely on users of those sites to see you and get interested in you.

If you’re new to camming, this can take some time. And in the cam world, time equals money. Reddit, with allowing you to post links to your videos, allows you to show what you do to people who may not be members of those sites yet.

This means more exposure and hopefully more paying customers who want to see more of what you do. The more interest you can get, the better!

The added bonus of becoming a Reddit cam girl is that they allow couples posts if you’re into that, and hardcore content is welcome. The site and the subreddits are moderated but don’t let that scare you, it is mostly to ensure that things run smoothly and there is no bullying going on and that everyone involved is of legal age.

Oh, and if those that watch your videos are really turned on, they can award you with coins. Now, as of today, they aren’t real currency, but instead something that will be used for stuff that Reddit will have. But, hey, you never know what those things will be and if they might end up being real money in the future.

Being An Adult Services Seller On Reddit

If you decide that you want to do more than just share your video links to other cam sites, you may want to consider being an adult services seller on Reddit.

This can be something you decide to do if you want to leave those other sites, or in addition to your cam work. However, you decide to use it, selling adult services on Reddit is great for cam girls.

Now, here is a little warning for you before you decide to post anything sexual on Reddit: If you’re looking to remain completely anonymous, Reddit isn’t going to be for you.

If you still want to use Reddit for your cam work, you should definitely not post in subreddits from your city or anything local; posts are completely public, and you could absolutely be traceable.

If you’re OK with all of this and still want to use Reddit for your cam business, you will want to familiarize yourself with the adult services selling subreddits that are available. You will more than likely have to become a verified user, which means posting a bit of free content on Reddit, but its more than worth it in the end.

The trick to this is to post pics or gifs of yourself on subreddits that fit with what you’re about. If you’re a girl with huge boobs, find subreddits for that. Or, if you’re a geeky girl, look for those subreddits. There are literally kinks and niches for everyone on Reddit.

Oh, and don’t try to charge for this content. Don’t mention prices, and don’t mention you’re a seller in these non-selling subreddits. Only when a member contacts you about your free content would it be wise to let them know you’ll chat…for a fee.

Many of these users won’t take the bait and they aren’t going to pay you. Don’t let that get you down, though. All of this just works towards getting your account verified, which means you can move to the adult services selling subreddits.

Once you’re at that stage, really read the rules for whatever subreddit you’re looking at joining. Each subreddit has its own rules and there is no excuse for being declined or booted because you didn’t follow the rules.

If you’re serious and want to make money on Reddit as a cam girl, you have to follow their rules, otherwise, you’ll be banned, which sucks.

Make Your Own Subreddit

As your popularity increases and you’ve used Reddit for a bit, you have the option of creating a subreddit dedicated completely to you.

This is your Wiki and you should include everything about you as a cam worker for your fans and paying customers, including your cam sites, your kinks and interests, how to pay you for content, what you might sell besides shows, and anything else that has to do with your cam work.

Remember, though, this will take time. Using Reddit requires a little advance work and planning, you can’t just jump on and become a Reddit cam girl star within minutes.

Final Thoughts: Using Reddit To Become A Successful Cam Girl Takes Work

Reddit is a great place to grow your cam career and make some extra money, especially if you are using the right subreddits. Unfortunately, it can’t be done instantaneously, but instead requires you to do some work with understanding the rules of Reddit and following them over a period of time.

However, once you’ve done that, Reddit, with its huge membership base, gets you out there and helps you to grow your cam girl business like no other way.

Cam girls are some of the most widely watched women across the world. Me and my friends are watched by millions of people daily – literally. There’s just something more exciting when you can log on to a show and see a legit, real woman and not just spend your time wanking it too boring, old porno clips on Pornhub. Don’t get me wrong, porn is great and fills in a need, but a living, breathing woman who is doing things you’re craving to see is even better. Actually, it’s ten times better.

If you’re a fan of cam shows and you have cam models you enjoy, you’re probably wondering how you can be the best cam girl fanboy you can be. I mean, each model has her own favorites and the better a customer you are, the more attention you’re going to get. And, isn’t that why you watch cam shows anyway?

If you want to be the best fanboy that you can be, there are definitely some things you can do to make yourself the “A+, shining star” of fanboys. Presented here for all of you fans of cam girls are the rules of how to be the best fanboy possible.

Before diving into this, let’s cover the basics. What is a fanboy? A fanboy is someone who is an extreme fan or more of a fan than most people out there. Simple as that and fanboys get more love.

Rules Every Fanboy Must Follow

These rules I’m going to share with you aren’t set in stone. Each cam girl is going to be unique in what she likes and doesn’t like, and you’ll have to do a little research into what your particular muse is into when you take your conversations private.

However, I can guarantee that if you follow these fanboy rules, you’re going to be her best customer, especially when most guys won’t even think to do these things. Trust me, these rules apply whether you’re using Jerkmate, Streamate any other webcam site.

Make Polite Conversation.

Look, we all know why guys like cam girls. It’s to see some booty, see some touching, and most likely to get “off” on their side. But, remember, fanboys, these women are still human beings.

Yes, you’re going to get your show, but if you’re polite and can have discussions about things other than strictly having sex, you’re going to endear yourself more to your cam girl.

Another reason to talk with your cam girl about other things is that it helps her to remember that you’re just a regular guy, too. Sure, this is a paid sexual transaction, but just like she’s a human being, so are you.

It’s a sad fact, but many guys are attracted to cam girls for things other than sex, like chit-chat and friendship. It may not be a friendship in the traditional sense of the word, but it is always nice to have someone to talk to when you don’t have that elsewhere.

The more you talk (politely), the more you both get to know each other and that can really go a long way.

Send Her Some Gifts.

Most, if not all, cam girls have a wish list that they keep on Amazon. They will usually add things of all price ranges, from cheap to super expensive, so you’re bound to find something that you can afford.

Cam girls will prioritize a fanboy if he is more generous, this is her career, after all. So, if you can swing it, find her wish list and take a gander.

Start small (unless you want to go crazy, then by all means, have at it) and just watch how fast you start to become a very important fanboy.

Don’t Try to Push Her into Your Script.

Remember how I said your favorite cam girls are actually human? This applies here as well. If you’re in a private show and you think it has to go exactly the way you want it to, you’re going to be sorely disappointed.

Live shows are just that, live. Things will happen that you didn’t think of, she may not be comfortable with your requests, or technology may fail. Stuff happens!

If you’re into something really kinky or different, talk with your cam model about it. If she’s into it and willing to indulge you, great. If not, and it’s going to push you into being abusive or leaving bad reviews, you need to be mature, accept that she isn’t the right one for your interests, and go about finding the one who is.

Don’t Ask Her Out.

This one is tricky because the lines can be blurred between fantasy and emotions. Many fanboys are A-OK with remembering that cam girls are a fantasy and something fun. But, some guys get a touch confused on this and want to take out their cam models on dates.

My best advice about this is: Don’t ever ask out your cam model. She is never going to say yes. She doesn’t want to date you.

That may sound mean, but trust me, as much as you want to think you’re going to woo her and win her over, you’re not. It never happens like that in the camming world.

Don’t Ask Her to Do Things She’s Already Said No To.

Again, this goes back to the mental script rule, but I think it really bears repeating because it is very common for fanboys who are not getting what they want to become mean.

If you’ve got a kink or fetish that you want to see and you’ve discussed this with your cam model and she just isn’t comfortable with it, don’t push her. Especially if she’s said, “Absolutely, no.” Everyone has their hard limits and you need to respect that.

That doesn’t mean a cam model won’t ever bend a little and do something you like, especially if you’ve been with her awhile and are a good tipper, but just don’t expect it. And, I wish I didn’t have to say this, but don’t ask her to do anything illegal or goes against her morals.

Would you want someone asking you to do something that you find uncomfortable?

Conclusion: Being a Fanboy is Easy and Common Sense.

These rules probably sound simple and maybe even a little silly. I mean, I didn’t give you anything earth-shattering here. But honestly, the nicer you are, the more enjoyable your private cam shows are going to be.

And, truthfully, your favorite cam girls are going to be more apt to want to engage with you if you’re being a nice guy, making your private cam shows more fun for you both, thus making you one of their favorite fanboys.

Be patient, friendly, engaging, polite, and just a good guy and you’re going to get to that fanboy status you’re coveting.

Oral sex is amazing. Like, seriously, the act of penetrative sex is mostly always awesome, but for many (many) women, cunnilingus is the best and only way they can reach a mind-blowing orgasm. So, it is really kind of meh when you’re with someone that just can’t get the job done and that’s the only way you can “get there”.

That’s why today I want to touch on the subject of going down on her. If you can master this important sex skill, you’re going to have your lady friend, or friends, squirming, squealing, and begging for more in no time. And let’s face it, it is sure a fun thing to practice!

If you’ve never seen a vagina, you’ve never attempted to go down on a girl, or you’re just not sure what to do when you’re down there, this article will teach you how to properly go down on her so that she enjoys it.

7 Tips for Going Down on Her…The Right Way

To start doing oral sex on a woman the right way, you kind of need to understand what she is rocking below the belt.

I’m not going to provide a diagram here because there is nothing grosser and more boring than high school sex-ed taught by the gym teacher who is uncomfortably droning on. You can find diagrams online anywhere and they can help point out where the hotspots are on a lady’s bits.

If you are in a relationship, or you have a willing sex buddy, she can also show you where things are and how she likes them. Remember, though, that not every woman is going to be the same and what one likes, one might not enjoy too much.

The biggest key to doing anything sexual and making it fun is to keep the lines of communication open with them so that everyone has fun!

So, now that you know about her nooks and crannies, here are the seven tips for going down on her the right way.

#1: Keep Things Slow.

Sometimes sex is a quickie thing. You both can’t keep your hands off of each other and you’re just going to town, or you’re trying to fit it in before someone notices what you’re doing. In those cases, you’re probably not focusing on going down on her; it’s more of a “wham, bam, thank you ma’am.”

However, if you are focusing on oral pleasure, you need to remember that this is a marathon and not a sprint. So many times, when we’re excited, aroused, or nervous we start going in hyper-speed, but for this situation and for most women, this isn’t just going to work.

If you’re going down on her, slow it down, even slower than you think you need to be going (unless and until she tells you otherwise).

#2: Build Up the Sexual Anticipation.

For guys, it can be very difficult to keep “things” under control when the bedroom antics are getting hot and heavy. I mean picture it:

You’re excited.

You’re with a naked lady.

She’s touching you AND letting you touch her.

Then she’s making all those noises that just get your goods throbbing.

If you’re a gentleman, you want it to be ladies first, but damn it can be hard to hold yourself off when you just want to bust a nut. That may prompt you to just dive in tongue first and hope she gets off as quickly as possible.

Let me tell you, this is the absolute wrong thing to do.

When you’re going down on her, you want to be build up some anticipation. You want to tease her, caress her, touch, lick, kiss, and breathe erotically all over her, not just her kitty. Sex is about the build-up for us and the more you do to get us revved up, the more we’re going to be begging for you.

#3: Use Your Breath, But Don’t Darth Vader Her.

Ok, this one is going to need some clarification because I can just picture guys doing the old “Darth Vader” asthmatic panting on a lady’s parts and then getting mad because she thought it was creepy. And it is creepy, so don’t go all COPD on your lady.

Breathing is an often overlooked tool in the sexual arsenal and if done right, can heighten the mood. Exhale slowly, with your mouth wide open, using warm air to get her excited. Give her a slow and sensual lick, from the bottom of the vagina to the top and then switch to a pursed-lip, cool air tactic on the wet spot you’ve just created.

#4: Get That Tongue A’Circlin’.

Once your lady is feeling excited and you’ve gotten her ready for the main oral event, the worst thing you can now do is hit her straight on with the jackhammer tongue. Don’t pretend that you’re repeatedly hitting an elevator button to close the door before that creep from down the hall tries who never shuts up tries to get in with you.

Instead, use your tongue gently, circling around her love button, teasing her. Eventually, you can use your tongue flat, pushing against her clit. And remember, every woman is different, so if she likes you to get rough with her little bean right away, do what she likes.

#5: Don’t Always Stop When She Cums.

Again, this is personal preference, so talk to your lady first. But, if she’s down, after she orgasms her pelvic muscles are going to contract and radiate out from there to the rest of her body. This is why it is so pleasurable for women to have an orgasm.

You can heighten this experience by applying pressure to the length of her vulva or to the clitoral head (with caution, it may be tooooo sensitive at that point) either with your tongue, your flat palm, or even a sex toy.

#6: Do a Debriefing…Later.

Along with talking about what she likes before you both get busy, it’s also beneficial to discuss what she did or didn’t enjoy once the deed is done. There is nothing wrong with talking about sex, in fact, it’s the mature thing to do and the only way you’re going to improve is to get feedback.

Don’t get offended if you did something she didn’t enjoy, just work on it for next time!

#7: Do Your Homework on Your Downtime.

Homework? Whaaa?

Yep, when you’re not in the bedroom is one of the best times to work on your technique. You want a nice strong tongue that can keep going for her, and all ya’ll guys know that some women take a loooong time to cum. That means your tongue will be working overtime and it can get exhausting.

When you’ve got some free time and you’re not around people who might get really offended by your lewd movements, open your mouth and move that tongue up and down, left and right, and all around. Just like you should exercise your other muscles, you should exercise your tongue for more stamina.

Bonus Tip: Relax and Enjoy.

Sex shouldn’t be clinical, unless you’re into that sort of thing. So, while these tips will go a long way in improving your technique when going down on her, they won’t do a damn thing if you’re not relaxed and enjoying yourself. Just as it’s important to get her calm, relaxed, and ready, you need to do the same for you.

Now, practice your tongue movements and get yourself ready to blow her mind!

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